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Our unconscious relationship history – a fun little game…

Our unconscious relationship history – a fun little game…

Finding my way back to home, Love & intimacy, Resources

This is an exercise to help uncover our unconscious relationship history.  Disclaimer: I apologise in advance…you’ll know why once you’ve done the exercise…(but you will be very happy you’ve done it!)… Instructions The exercise comes in 2...
4 Key elements to building a life worth living

4 Key elements to building a life worth living

Core survival skills, Reminders to self, Resources

A beautiful message from Marsha Linehan. She talks about 4 skills needed for building a life worth living/creating a life you want to live in this short video clip (below). Marsha is not a typical therapist and the work she does is very specific, however the more I...
The role of imagination in presence – John O’Donohue

The role of imagination in presence – John O’Donohue

Resources, The inner world, Waking up

  Listened to this YouTube recording of a talk by poet & philosopher John O’Donohue last night and my brain kind of melted like a gorgeous gooey Galaxy chocolate bar of loveliness…Mmmmmm…and I woke up this morning still feeling the loveliness of his words…...
I am more than my imperfections #findingMyWayBackToHome

I am more than my imperfections #findingMyWayBackToHome

Reminders to self, Resources

Self work on the plane Sometimes I find travelling time the best time to reflect. Doing some work with Brene Browns free worksheets (under downloads on her website). Something on one of the sheets helped me become aware of how severely I tend to judge myself in times...

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  • The Body of the Beloved
  • To Be Alive
  • Our unconscious relationship history – a fun little game…
  • How to be happier in 10 f*ckin seconds or less
  • A lifetime of work…
  • End of lockdown – The beginning of the beginning
  • Everyone longs for intimacy and dreams of belonging
  • 4 Key elements to building a life worth living
  • There is no love that won’t break your heart
  • Covid-19 Why does this feel so bad? And what to do about it
  • Covid-19 Information Overload – The Corporate Slice of the Covid Cake
  • Your ego is not your guru

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More thoughts…

  • The Body of the Beloved
  • To Be Alive
  • Our unconscious relationship history – a fun little game…
  • How to be happier in 10 f*ckin seconds or less
  • A lifetime of work…
  • End of lockdown – The beginning of the beginning
  • Everyone longs for intimacy and dreams of belonging
  • 4 Key elements to building a life worth living
  • There is no love that won’t break your heart
  • Covid-19 Why does this feel so bad? And what to do about it

More about…

  • Audio resources
  • Belonging
  • Core survival skills
  • Ego
  • Existential crisis
  • Finding my way back to home
  • Impermanence
  • Inner critic
  • Joy
  • Love & intimacy
  • Poetry
  • Ponderings
  • Presence
  • Reminders to self
  • Resources
  • The inner world
  • Waking up
  • When you need a giggle
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